{"id":55659,"date":"2021-09-15T10:58:55","date_gmt":"2021-09-15T08:58:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/?p=55659"},"modified":"2022-08-18T17:52:22","modified_gmt":"2022-08-18T15:52:22","slug":"you-cant-stop-the-waves-inspiration-shot-september-2021","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/en\/blog\/you-cant-stop-the-waves-inspiration-shot-september-2021\/","title":{"rendered":"You can’t stop the waves… – Inspiration shot September 2021"},"content":{"rendered":"

You can’t stop the waves…<\/h1>\n

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… but you can learn to surf!<\/p>\n

I notice that things that are happening in the world right now make many people feel unsettled. Some don’t agree with measures that are in place, others feel uncomfortable in their current situation, and some even feel that their freedom is being threatened.
\nI have learned that you cannot change external circumstances. If you try to resist something that you have no control over, you will just end up frustrated.
\nI always try to focus on things that I\u00a0can\u00a0influence. Focusing on the things that you can change doesn’t mean that you agree with everything that is happening, but means that you find your own way.
\nIn this Inspiration Shot, I will share some practical examples of how you can focus on things that you can change and have control of.<\/p>\n<\/div>

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Always look in the direction that you want to go!<\/h2>\n<\/div>

As part of ‘learning to surf’, I was in Brittany for a week at the end of August, to take windsurfing lessons. It was intense with high waves and a lot of wind at times. There’s nothing you can do about the weather, so this is the ultimate example of ‘working with what you have’.
\nThe most important tip I got was ‘always look in the direction where you want to go’. Don’t watch the board, the sail, or your feet, but keep your eyes focused on where you want to go. It makes a world of difference. Coincidentally, I’ve also had the exact same advice during surfing, skiing, karate, and business administration lessons! Could this be something we can apply to our entire lives?\u00a0Keep your eyes on where you want to go!<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>

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Align with the movement, not against it\u2026<\/h2>\n<\/div>

Karate teaches us to use the momentum from our opponent’s movement and use that force to counter. I tried to apply that principle to my father’s situation.
\nThe sad thing about Alzheimer’s is that time perception fades. Lately, my father has had the idea that his parents have just passed away. He calls me or my sister several times a day with the question: \u201cHave you heard?\u201d
\nNo matter how many times we try to make it clear that they’ve been gone for decades, the idea doesn’t stick. And every day dad is sad or in shock about what ‘just happened’.
\nInstead of constantly correcting him, I’ve now figured out that maybe it’s best to go along with it. So I’m making a ‘memorial’ photo book of grandma and grandpa, and for the sake of convenience, I am including pictures of the whole family and important friends in it. That way, Dad has an external memory aid and a way to focus his grief on something. This beautiful photo of my mother, father and his father will of course get a place of honor!<\/p>\n<\/div>

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The boy who harnessed the wind<\/h2>\n<\/div>

“When a wind of change blows, some people build walls, others build windmills…”<\/p>\n

If you have nothing; no money, no school, no opportunities, and you want something anyway, how do you get it done? The penniless William Kamkwamba from Malawi saw a picture of a windmill in a booklet and decided to build one from materials he found in the trash. He managed to generate electricity to study in the evenings. In the end, he helped his whole village and became world-famous. He tells his story in\u00a0this TED talk<\/a>. His\u00a0first TED talk<\/a>\u00a0is also worth watching, now that you know this story. William is so nervous…
\nHis story has also been made into a movie: \u201cThe boy who harnessed the wind\u201d:<\/p>\n<\/div>

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