{"id":576885,"date":"2026-09-26T20:02:23","date_gmt":"2026-09-26T18:02:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/?page_id=576885"},"modified":"2026-10-13T05:24:56","modified_gmt":"2026-10-13T03:24:56","slug":"surrender-experiment","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/en\/surrender-experiment\/","title":{"rendered":"The Surrender Experiment"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><h1>The Surrender Experiment<\/h1>\n<h3>A private island experience to reconnect with yourself, others and nature<\/h3>\n<p>What happens when you stop trying to make everything happen? I am considering organising a five-day retreat in the summer of 2027 or 2028, depending on sufficient interest. No date has been confirmed. Does this appeal to you? Let me know you are interested.<\/p>\n<p>On a private island in Estonia, away from everyday life, routines, expectations, shops, traffic and endless choices. Just a small group of people, nature, sea, silence, long summer days and a lot of space.<\/p>\n<p>Magic. Trust. Presence. Connection.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><h2>What if trying harder is no longer the answer?<\/h2>\n<p>Maybe you\u2019ve achieved a lot. You\u2019re good at making things happen. You solve problems, take responsibility, make decisions and create opportunities. And maybe you\u2019ve reached a point where you\u2019re wondering: what\u2019s next?<\/p>\n<p>There may be something you want to change or let go of. Maybe you feel stuck somewhere. Or maybe nothing is wrong at all, but you\u2019re curious whether life could feel even freer, lighter and more joyful.<\/p>\n<p>Working harder probably isn\u2019t going to give you that answer. So let\u2019s try something else.<\/p>\n<p>The idea: five days of experimenting with surrender.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:20px;--awb-padding-right:20px;--awb-padding-bottom:20px;--awb-padding-left:20px;--awb-bg-color:#00646f;--awb-bg-color-hover:#00646f;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-margin-bottom:20px;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-1 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" alt=\"Sharing a meal on the sunny island terrace\" title=\"surrender-terrace\" src=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-terrace.jpeg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-577460\" srcset=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-terrace-200x150.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-terrace-400x300.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-terrace-600x450.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-terrace-800x600.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-terrace.jpeg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Where:<\/strong> Private island, Estonia<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>When:<\/strong> Summer 2027 or 2028, depending on sufficient interest<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"><strong>Proposed duration:<\/strong> 5 days, 4 nights<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-button-wrapper fusion-align-block\"><a class=\"fusion-button button-flat fusion-button-default-size button-default fusion-button-default button-1 fusion-button-span-yes fusion-button-default-type\" style=\"--awb-margin-top:15px;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"mailto:esther@estherjacobs.info?subject=The%20Surrender%20Experiment\"><span class=\"fusion-button-text awb-button__text awb-button__text--default\">YES, KEEP ME POSTED<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:40px;--awb-padding-bottom:40px;--awb-background-color:#eff8fa;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\"><h2>What could the retreat look like?<\/h2>\n<p>I\u2019m not going to tell you. Well, not everything. Because that\u2019s part of the experiment.<\/p>\n<p>You won\u2019t receive a detailed programme telling you what happens at 9:00, 11:00 and 14:00. You won\u2019t know exactly what the next day will bring.<\/p>\n<p>There will be meditation, movement, silence, nature, conversations, reflection, music, creativity, writing, play and unexpected experiences. There may be tango. There will be time together and time alone. We may invite you to go for a walk without knowing where you\u2019re going, eat in silence, follow instead of lead, sit by the sea, let someone else decide, or do something that feels slightly uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Or to do absolutely nothing.<\/p>\n<p>The idea is to plan some things and let others happen naturally. That\u2019s the point.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-3 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-max-width:260px;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-2 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"A mirrored dome surrounded by grass on the island\" title=\"surrender-dome\" src=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-dome.jpeg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-577452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-dome-200x267.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-dome-400x533.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-dome-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-dome.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-3 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:40px;--awb-padding-bottom:40px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-4 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-5\"><h2>The island is part of the experiment<\/h2>\n<p>The island already has most of the ingredients we need. No shops, limited electricity, sea, silence, rabbits, nature everywhere, places to wander off on your own and places to come together. Life automatically slows down there.<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re not going to fill all that beautiful empty space with workshops. We want to leave room for things to happen. For conversations you couldn\u2019t have planned. For ideas to appear when you stop looking for them. For silence to last a little longer than feels comfortable. For spontaneous adventures, unexpected connections and whatever the island decides to throw at us.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-5 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-max-width:260px;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-3 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"Quiet Baltic Sea shoreline on the private island\" title=\"surrender-shore\" src=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-shore.jpeg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-577454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-shore-200x267.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-shore-400x533.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-shore-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-shore.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-4 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:40px;--awb-padding-bottom:40px;--awb-background-color:#eff8fa;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-6 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-6\"><h2>This might be for you if\u2026<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>You\u2019ve achieved a lot and find yourself wondering: what\u2019s next?<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019re used to making decisions, taking responsibility and making things happen.<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019ve hit a wall somewhere and suspect that pushing harder isn\u2019t going to get you through it.<\/li>\n<li>There\u2019s something you would love to release, but somehow haven\u2019t managed to.<\/li>\n<li>You want more clarity about how you actually want to live.<\/li>\n<li>You\u2019re curious about what happens when you stop trying to control everything.<\/li>\n<li>You want to meet other curious, open-minded people who approach life in a similar way and see what connections emerge naturally, without business talk, networking or elevator pitches.<\/li>\n<li>You like nature, depth, play, good conversations, silence, surprises and a little bit of the unknown.<\/li>\n<li>You read this page and something inside you simply says: hell yes.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-7 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-margin-bottom:20px;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-4 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" alt=\"A group sharing a relaxed moment together on the island\" title=\"surrender-connection\" src=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-connection.jpeg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-577458\" srcset=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-connection-200x150.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-connection-400x300.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-connection-600x450.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-connection-800x600.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-connection.jpeg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-5 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:40px;--awb-padding-bottom:40px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-8 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-7\"><h2>Come as your future self<\/h2>\n<p>There is one part of the experiment I can already tell you about.<\/p>\n<p>Before you come to the island, I\u2019ll ask you to imagine yourself already living the life you really want. Who are you? How do you live? How do you move through the world? What do you wear? What do you talk about? What have you stopped worrying about?<\/p>\n<p>Then come to the island as that person. Introduce yourself as that person. Dress like that person. Show up as that person.<\/p>\n<p>And for five days, see what happens.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-9 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-margin-bottom:20px;--awb-max-width:260px;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-5 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"Esther welcomes you at the entrance to Viirelaid island in Estonia\" title=\"surrender-welcome\" src=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-welcome.jpeg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-577450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-welcome-200x267.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-welcome-400x533.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-welcome-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-welcome.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-10 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-8\"><h2>Why The Surrender Experiment?<\/h2>\n<p>The idea is inspired by Michael A. Singer\u2019s book The Surrender Experiment. Singer decided to experiment with what would happen if he stopped constantly arranging life according to his own preferences and started saying yes to what life put in front of him. That experiment took his life in directions he could never have planned.<\/p>\n<p>I find that idea fascinating. How much of our energy goes into trying to make reality match the picture in our head? What might happen if we loosened our grip a little and became more curious about what life puts in front of us?<\/p>\n<p>If this idea intrigues you, I recommend reading the book before joining us.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-6 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:40px;--awb-padding-bottom:40px;--awb-background-color:#eff8fa;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-11 fusion_builder_column_2_3 2_3 fusion-two-third fusion-column-first\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:66.666666666667%;width:calc(66.666666666667% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.66666666666667 ) );margin-right: 4%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-9\"><h2>The preliminary idea<\/h2>\n<p>Summer 2027 or 2028, depending on sufficient interest<br \/>No confirmed date yet<br \/>5 days, 4 nights<br \/>Private island, Estonia<br \/>Small international group<br \/>Accommodation on the island<br \/>Optional overnight stay at our hub hotel before and\/or after the experience<\/p>\n<p>If there is sufficient interest, I will develop the idea further. Information about accommodation, practical details, facilitators, price and how to join would follow then.<\/p>\n<p>(Apparently even this website has to practise surrender.)<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-12 fusion_builder_column_1_3 1_3 fusion-one-third fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;width:33.333333333333%;width:calc(33.333333333333% - ( ( 4% ) * 0.33333333333333 ) );\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element fusion-image-align-center in-legacy-container\" style=\"text-align:center;--awb-max-width:260px;--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><div class=\"imageframe-align-center\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-6 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" alt=\"A cosy room with a round window overlooking the island\" title=\"surrender-room\" src=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-room.jpeg\" class=\"img-responsive wp-image-577463\" srcset=\"https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-room-200x267.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-room-400x533.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-room-600x800.jpeg 600w, https:\/\/estherjacobs.info\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/surrender-room.jpeg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-clearfix\"><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div id=\"keep-me-posted\" class=\"fusion-container-anchor\"><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-7 nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-top:40px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-13 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-one-full fusion-column-first fusion-column-last\" style=\"--awb-padding-top:0px;--awb-padding-bottom:0px;--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-margin-bottom:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-column-wrapper-legacy\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-10\"><h2>Something in you saying yes?<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to decide yet. If you\u2019re curious, send me an email to express your interest. If there is sufficient interest, I am considering organising the retreat in the summer of 2027 or 2028. You will be the first to hear when there is more clarity.<\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-button-wrapper fusion-align-block\"><a class=\"fusion-button button-flat fusion-button-default-size button-default fusion-button-default button-2 fusion-button-span-yes fusion-button-default-type\" style=\"--awb-margin-top:15px;--awb-margin-bottom:16px;\" target=\"_self\" href=\"mailto:esther@estherjacobs.info?subject=The%20Surrender%20Experiment\"><span class=\"fusion-button-text awb-button__text awb-button__text--default\">YES, KEEP ME POSTED<\/span><\/a><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-11\"><p style=\"margin-bottom: 0;\">No commitment. Just curiosity. 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